Depends on the person and situation. If the man can't handle it alone and finds it too hard to handle, and prays about it, I know that God can provide you with a spouse that is loving and would be a good mother to your children. Yet I also advise you to take your time to find the right person so that the lady will not be a mean step mother. So important to find a loving person who will be right by your kids. If the man can do it on his own and raise his children in the Lord, God will bless him doing it alone too. So it's what a person feels in their heart. God Bless, Rev.Cathryn Hughes