The question u need to ask yourself Wendy is "What kind of single man do I want? A social drop out? A gangster or a gentleman?A man who is self employed,a professional or an idler?A pagan,an aethist or a born again christian?You see you will never get to your destination if you don't know the way .First,know what you want.Second,pray.Third,listen to your heart.Fourth,reach out,interact.Fifth,listen to God.He is the only One who trully knows the heart of every man.He is the one who knows what's best for you.