please understand this that whoever God will bring on your way as your partner you will not like him/her on the first day.look at this,the flesh and the spirit.this two individuals fight another and always the flesh is weak but with the power of God thge spirit recandled your soul for the glorification of God.Have you ver asked those who are married this question.Did you plan to marry?you can plan to marry a beautiful lady yet inside her beauty is destruction while when you marry in connection to divine arrangement by God you will be fulfilled.You also need asound prayer life.Lemmie share with you my pesonal encounter,a pastor proposed to me for a hand in marriage,he was very nice looking loaded with the scriptures and above all fulfilled with the power of the Holy Ghost,I went for prayer and fasting for 3days and God exposed him to me the very last day.He misbehaved to the senior pastor and this led to his miscommuncation by the church and the Holy Spirit of God ministered to me that is that the man you want to spend your whole life with?he is not your husband.Many people have taken their feelings as the weapon to a successful courtship hence marriage and not givingup their emotions to God.we can ask God to give us our heart desires but we cant force Him to do His sighns and wonders. For more shares,please check on my profile and e amil me.